Dating a persian women
That bitchy Pegah girl who attends every ' Iranian Disco Night' will get a lot more attention and will exemplify much of the diva-Persian-girl stereotype than Mona, the less than flashy simple girl who lives with her parents and doesn't open up as much. As a Persian woman in her twenties, I am offended by this question. I don't fit any of the stereotypes described on this page (except for Iran RPCV's description, which I don't think is culture-specific), and I don't see any positive that comes from this question.
Except normal, mild-mannered individuals are hardly ever the centre of discussion because they don't provide for an outrageous subject. So yes, women are valued and spoiled, but then again, males are spoiled and given attention to in a lot more instances than we usually choose to discuss.
Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid.
You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play.
I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years.
The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed.
For example, in the Netherlands, comprehensive sexuality education starts at age four. Instead of cruelly dismissing someone by disappearing, they communicate that they are not interested. As the media in Europe is a lot more heavily monitored, Europeans grow up surrounded by media and images of women who are curvy, comfortable in their own skin, and sensual (versus overly sexualized).
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The dynamic may or may not move into a serious relationship, but they are not trying to gather other options or back up plans in case it doesn’t. Americans (both men and women) have been socialized to play games, to act unavailable, to wait a particular amount of time before texting back…
There are a set of ritualized rules that are abided by in American dating culture, and if you don’t play within them, you are labeled as desperate or needy or undesirable.