Dating for unattractive people
Most of us have long-term partners and when we go out, most of us are never short of propositions from male suitors.My problem is this: I have two friends who would not be described as conventionally attractive.But how you go from that to the conclusion that “much of male society thinks they are not worth loving” is quite a leap!How do you explain the statistical majority of women in the world who aren’t “very attractive, slim, and fit” — and yet somehow find themselves married to men who presumably consider them “worth loving”?I don’t think you know what “the reality of the situation” is.
I am tired of seeing them suffer and want to help them to help themselves.Guys either liked Holly “as a friend,” or used her to get closer to her bevy of beautiful buddies. She was attractive in the way that most people are, meaning, not within the media’s very narrow definition.(For women: tall, skinny, large breasts, smooth long hair, carefully applied makeup that doesn’t look like makeup.Which brings me to back to you, DTH, and your question about how you can help your two friends.You may not realize how damaging your “I feel so sorry for them” attitude is.