Dating games playing hard to get
It really is like a basketball game; the ball bounces from your court to her court at different times, especially at the beginning when you are learning about one another.I am definitely guilty of having a guy pursue and chase me and make it oh-so-easy early on that I have felt like I didn’t have to work as hard to build something. He skips calling me for a day or two or doesn’t ask me out for Saturday night and I go cray-cray.
He let me know he saw me on there a few times and I made a few snarky remarks about him always being on there.
This became an issue for us both and instead of being the bigger person and communicating with him, I played games and hard to get, intentionally logging onto the site and leaving it open Well, as most of you have guessed, my games backfired and he told me he did not want to date a woman who was always online seeking other men.
So by playing hard to get, I lost a guy I was really into.
In this crazy and fast-paced age of technology, we have lost sight of quality, real intimacyand conversation.
Fortunately and unfortunately, we have options of people to date online beyond anything we could have imagined.
Now, Guys, I want to be clear, this does not mean that we don’t want to spend time with you, but that we really don’t have it to give you right now. You will know quickly which woman is playing and which is truly busy, but is also into you.