My friend is dating an older man
We had always known we wouldn't last, maybe she did more than I, and since we made each other happy we didn't feel the need to split up yet.
Well she got sick, I got busy, then she got busy, and things slowly deteriorated. We have known eaach other for seventeen years off and on.
You either do a complete turn around and talk yourself into being straight, and i think that wouldn't work, or you tell him goodbye. Also that doesnt mean you should follow advice of so called jerks.
Or, if he is willing to continue this charade, knowing full well what's involved, then do that. My opinion, tell him and move on to someone who truly make's you happy, and let him do the same. Key with any relationship via it be friendship or love interest is communication, trust and respect.
She barely communicated with me during the last two weeks of our relationship, and now she has stopped talking to me all together. Hey, I'm very late to reply to this, but I have/had the exact same situation. We talked about dating pretty intensely then it ended quickly without notice. Yes, it hurts, but it is better to hear now than years down the road. All was good until she started giving me long, full body hugs a few months ago. Also that she is who she is and does not want to change.
I just thought that after all we had been through she wouldn't have to prove to herself that she could "survive" without me. I'm the guy and my very close friend recently broke up with her gf. I've always known we would not be together just because we weren't compatable sexually. I thought it meant that she was open to being in a closer relationship to me. I said that I respect who she is and that I do not expect her to change.
I also get along very much with her lesbian partner. When we married I didnt want her to take on my surname or anything like that. Likewise we talked about such, we know inside we will be friends for life, and if it comes to point that I did find a heterosexual female who wants to marry me, she has no problem us disolving our marriage, but our friendship will remain.
Hey im 13 and afraid that i might be a lesbian its not a bad thing its just im kind of imbarressed ive felt this way for a good while and dont want to tell my friend in case they feel strange around me or tell people who will make fun of me should i tell them and warn them to keep it a secret???
You surely know how gay couple are stereotyped by society: one plays the woman and the the other the man.
We've known each other for years, and he has been my best friend since forever. He's too happy we're dating after all these years of loving me in silence. I really I want to make him happy, and he makes me happy too, but even kissing is kind of gross for me. But it's not his fault he's not a woman, or that I don't like men. Both of you are robbing yourselve's of the love and compatibility that you desire with the gender of your choice.
He is in love with me and we're kind of dating now. It's getting so bad I feel sick to my stomach when we hang out and that's... You being a lesbian and he being straight is a recipe for disaster down the line. It's not fair to either one of you, and it will never be.
Not doing that will lead to big problems in end, but this advice is true for any sort of relationship, hetro, lesbian or whatever.
By the way, I am married to lesbian, many would think would be hardcore lesbian.
We are open we talk to eachother, we are affectionate.