Play a dating game online
The hard to get player will take a genuine interest in your life.
They may still not seem 100%, keen and will try to maintain the act of indifference, but the personal questions they ask give them away.
You might have told all your friends that you are done with playing games, and you just want to be honest with the next person you date. It’s all well and good being straight and upfront with your next date, but if you are looking for something serious then honesty might not be the best policy.
A study in The European Journal of Personality presents data collected from a group of young men and women attending four different universities.
If you’ve tried to arrange a date, but it has been cancelled, the person playing hard to get will have a genuine reason for not showing up.
They will also probably have another time and date in mind so you two can get together.
Grab your cup of coffee or glass of wine, ladies and gentlemen, because we’re about to get into it!
However, if someone is not interested, you should have noticed an extreme change in their behaviour.
Maybe initially they were approachable and keen, then after a while seem distant and unavailable.
You could end up missing out on the love of your life because neither of you was willing to admit your interest in the other.
So maybe it’s time to drop the mind games and get back to some good, honest romance and leave “playing it cool” to the Danny Zukos of this world.
The uninterested person, if they have agreed to a date will not have a clear idea of when you can meet again in the future.