Reasons online dating is dangerous
But due to this there is a vast difference in what we feel talking to them on the net and what we feel on actually being with them. Be it a boy or a girl, whoever is trying to find a date online will give his/her best shot.In many cases it happens that the comfort and freedom we feel and share with a person virtually is a complete fiasco in person. Ofcourse everyone has their own share of flaws, and no one likes to reveal them. When you date somebody online, there can be a million things they hide from you and you don’t even have a clue of them.Yes, it is a good thing, as it is modern, instant and liberal. Below is the list of One big question of dating online is how long can it last?A long distance relationship can be really troublesome.During my bootcamp with Sasha in Oslo I slowly started to realize that I suddenly feel this tingling in my stomach when I looked at the local girls.Surprisingly, I felt it was more often than I did back home.There may be for a few days an intense feeling of connection and bonding, but this is short lived. The major reason being that we don’t know any background of the partner we found online. And hence, there is always a sense of suspicion, doubt and insecurity with an online partner. Loyalty Loyalty is an inevitable parameter of love.
Away from all these factors, if you still are someone who has found a partner online, with whom you share a bond that is pure and faithful, you are lucky beyond limits.
Seriousness is terribly rare and unguaranteed in virtual relationships. So, how can one ever be sure that we will find love through online dating? Trust in the true sense takes a considerable amount of time and effort to bloom. But yes, you can’t trust people just after a few all- sweet conversations, and some sugar coated moments. When our childhood friends, our family members betray us, our closest people betray us, who are those whom we meet online?
Therefore online dating’s another flaw is the lack of seriousness. Perhaps talking a lot and knowing someone very well is possible through the internet, it may also lead to some genuine feelings, but certainly not everlasting ones. It cannot be found by merely talking for long hours or meeting once or twice or looking at the best pictures of each other. Trust is the most essential requirement of a relationship and it can’t be assured online.
One person may get very serious but the other one may only have an infatuation, or perhaps not even that. While in contrast online dating is a very shallow concept. How can we expect a thing as real as love, partnership, relationship, compatibility through it? The lack of emotions and bonding in the actual sense will always be missing when finding a partner online. Insecurity Insecurity is another important aspect of online dating. But for virtual partners it does have a negative indication. When two hearts are ready to be with each other, fight all odds, devote themselves to each other and be together only for each other, then is a relationship a relationship. What is the most important value needed for a relationship?
Online dating is often like a tool for passing time, flirting or fulfilling one’s emotional and sensual needs for a temporary basis. They can’t be counted, calculated, detected, checked, measured, weighed or assured in anyway. Where love is about eternity, never ending bonding, trust, faith, warmth, happiness and all kinds of heavy emotions, online dating is merely a platform to fulfill one’s urges in an instant way. Those whom we meet online are virtual people, they can portray the best and we won’t even get a hint. A virtual partner always has the sense of insecurity as how reliable is his partner. What does he/she do when he/she is not talking to me? To this question we all may have varied answers, like, compatibility, understanding, love, loyalty … But if we notice, all of these values stand on the same base, i.e. Trust is not what can be developed overnight or in an instant. What we see, what we hear, are often what can cheat us. No, not that everyone that you meet online is a liar, or a double timer, or a Casanova or a flirt.
However, as beautiful and fulfilling it is to seduce women from all over the world, as dangerous it can be to leave the secure border of your home country in search of tits and fresh pussy juice.